How to Become Jewish

Converting to Judaism:

Conservative and Orthodox Jews require that the potential convert be instructed about how to live as a Jew, and undergo kabbalat ol mitzvot (agreement to do the commandments), mila (circumcision for men),* and tevilah (immersion in a mikvah [ritual bath]), and that the procedure be supervised by a Beit Din [court] of three people. Note that the members of the Bet Din must be acceptable witnesses. According to Orthodox Jewish law, a witness must scrupulously observe all the laws, particularly Shabbat. From an Orthodox standpoint, therefore, any Jew who does not follow Orthodox standards of practice — rabbi or not — would not be qualified to sit on a Beit Din.
The Reform movement requires that the potential convert agree to observe the commandments (according to Reform standards) and participate publicly in the community, but they do not require mikvah or mila. The Reform movement recommends that the potential convert be made aware of mikvah and mila, and that their conversion would be unacceptable to Orthodox Jews, but such notification is not required.

Potential converts should be aware that, depending on the movement that performs the conversion, other movements may or may not recognize their conversion. For example, Orthodox movements do not recognize all Reform conversions, most Conservative conversions and even some Orthodox conversions. Conservative rabbis will accept Reform conversions with mila and tevilah, regardless of the observance level of the Beit Din, for the sake of intergroup harmony. In general, the more liberal the movement, the more accepting it is of other movement’s conversions; the more orthopractic the conversion, the more acceptable it is to more movements.

The debate among movements as to the acceptability of different procedures remains unresolved, and is unlikely to ever be resolved. Liberal Judaism views this as a question of stringency. Therefore, for Liberal Judaism to say, “I will comply with the Orthodox standard,” is to acknowledge an insufficiency of its own standards. Obviously, then, non­Orthodox rabbis are unwilling to leave all conversions to the Orthodox. Conversely, for Orthodox Judaism to say. “Liberal standards are acceptable,” is to acknowledge a superfluity of its stricter standards, an equally unlikely scenario. Orthodox Judaism views conversion as a matter of objective reality. A non­Jew does or does not become Jewish by a particular procedure. This is in some ways analogous to the procedure by which a person becomes a naturalized citizen. Just as the oath of allegiance that the person takes to become a citizen is only the end of a process, and only certain judges may administer that oath; so to (l’havdil) the Beit Din, tevilah (immersion), and circumcision (if male) are the culmination of a process and may only be administered by certain rabbis. This is unacceptable to Liberal Judaism, as part of the procedure is an understanding and acceptance of the world view of Orthodox Judaism.

The question of Jewish status in Israel is different. Jews (regardless of affiliation; regardless of conversion status) may receive Israeli citizenship under the Law of Return. Once in Israel, one’s acceptance as a Jew is usually up to the Orthodox religious authorities, who may or may not regard a non­Orthodox conversion as halachically­valid regardless of the affiliation on your Israeli identity card.

Although there is no legal requirement mandating that a male convert to Judaism adopt the Hebrew name of Abraham or that female converts use Ruth or Sarah as a first name, there is a longstanding tradition to this effect. In most cases at the time of conversion a male convert is named Avraham ben Avraham Avinu (Abraham the son of Abraham our father), and a female convert is named Sara bat Avraham Avinu (Sarah the daughter of Abraham our father) or Rut bat Avraham Avinu (Ruth the daughter of Amraham our father).

Two reasons are offered for naming converts Avraham. First, the Bible (Genesis 17:5) speaks of Abraham as being “the father of a multitute of nations,” and since proselytes come from diverse peoples and backgrounds, it is appropriate that they be called the sons and daughters of Abraham.

A second explanation, offered in the Midrash, runs as follows: Since the Children of Israel are called G-d’s “friends,” as it is written, “the seed of Abraham My [G-d’s] friend (Isaiah 41:8), and since proselytes are called G-d’s “friends,” as it is written, “G-d is the friend of the proselyte” (Deuteronomy 10:18), it was concluded that Abraham has a special relationship to proselytes. In Jewish tradition, Abraham becomes known as “the father of proselytes” because once non-Jews have converted to Judaism, their legal connection with their former non-Jewish families is, for the most part, severed, and the family of Abraham is now their family. The Talmud calls them, “newborn babies” (Yevamot 22a).

Nevertheless, proselytes are still obligated to fulfill the biblical comandment of “Honor thy father and mother,” and therefore the Jewish laws of mourning must be observed by the proselyte when his non-Jewish parents die. The Talmud also indicates that if a proselyte’s father dies, he may inherit his portion of the estate along with his non-Jewish brother.

Offering the convert the name of Abraham is explained by the Midrash to be an expression of deep love. The Midrash says, “G-d loves proselytes dearly. And we, too, should show our love for them because they left their father’s house, and their people, and the Gentile community, and have joined us.”

Female converts take the name of Sarah because she was the wife of Abraham, the first Hebrew, and also because, as tradition has it, she and Abraham were active in “winning souls” (Genesis 12:5) to the worship of G-d; Abraham converting idol-worshipping men and Sarah converting the women.

Female converts to Judaism also take the name of Ruth because the Ruth of the Bible is regarded as the epitome of loyalty to Judaism, although she was not a convert in the formal sense, not having undergone immersion in a ritul bath (mikva). Ruth is famous for swearing eternal allegiance to her mother in law, Naomi.


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      Think about your reasons for converting and if they seem trivial–like  wanting to be ‘different’ or boredom or wanting to impress someone you have a  crush on–then converting to Judaism is probably not a process that you’ll want  to undertake. Your motives will need to be more pure. If you strongly and  sincerely identify with the spiritual and cultural aspects of Judaism, for  example, or are engaged to or married to a Jew, then you’re ready to  convert.

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      Decide which type of Judaism you’ll want to convert to. There are four  branches of Judaism (Reform, Conservative, Reconstructionist and Orthodox) to be  considered. Research each of the four types and, if possible, speak with people  who practice each of the different philosophies in order to formulate an  educated, well-rounded opinion of which you’ll want to belong (see  Resources).


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    Find a rabbi who can mentor you. You’ll need someone to help guide you  through your spiritual journey and to give you advice and encouragement along  the way, and a rabbi can do just that. A rabbi is a man or woman trained in  Jewish law, ritual and tradition and is ordained for leadership of a Jewish  congregation, particularly as a chief religious official with a synagogue  (church).

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    Learn Jewish history, culture and tradition through classes. This is the most  challenging and time-consuming part of the process. The rabbi mentoring you will  require at least several months of classes and possibly up to a few years,  depending on the branch philosophy you’ll be joining. Among the things you’ll  learn about during this time period are the Jewish calendar, Jewish philosophy  and theology, holy books and Jewish Law and  customs. You’ll also need to learn to read and speak some the Jewish language  Hebrew.

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    Go before the beth din. The beth din (also spelled beit din) is a religious  court that rules upon a conversion. The beth din is a court of three Jews, at  least one of whom is a rabbi. It’s the beth din’s responsibility to determine  whether or not the applicant is worthy or ready to convert to  Judaism.

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    Undergo mikevah, mileh and mitzvot. Under the Code of Jewish Law (the  “Shulchan Aruch”) these three processes are required for a conversion to Judaism  to be valid. The mikveh is a ritual bath in a body of water, usually in a pool  that’s specifically for of ritual purification. With the milah, male converts  must undergo circumcision, or if he’s already circumcised, he undergoes a  symbolic ritual where just a drop of blood is taken. With the mitzvot, the  convert must agree to observe all 613 commandments in the holy book the  Torah.



10 responses to “How to Become Jewish”

  1. David Lee Avatar
    David Lee

    I love Israel and would like to live and work there. Please advise how I can accomplish my goal.



  2. James Welch Avatar
    James Welch

    Is it possible to become Aliyah, move to Israel and convert at the same time? I am interested in belonging to the Tsahal

  3. maccabette Avatar

    Check out The Jewish Agency for Israel
    Everything you need to know about making Aliyah is there!

  4. Arnold Webre, Jr. Avatar
    Arnold Webre, Jr.

    I vote that Israel takes back Gaza, since the Palestinians cannot keep a non-aggression agreement with the State of Israel.

    1. James Welch Avatar
      James Welch

      I am ready and willing to serve Israel. I have always love the land and her people. I am 57 but still wish to have active service. I have deployed most recently to Iraq and Afghanistan. I am fit and trained. I will complete a second master degree, in intelligence studies, this May. I am more than willing to convert and commit. One suggestion I would proffer and that is that Israel develop a trusted foreign Legion for volunteer fighters.

  5. maccabette Avatar

    Judaism is such a wonderful religion. Its number one concern is the present life and cherishing the gift of the life unlike other religions.

  6. David Salgadu Avatar
    David Salgadu

    i am love Jews girls

  7. David Salgadu Avatar
    David Salgadu

    Hello, dear sir
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  8. heyjules Avatar

    can you be a jew that believes Jesus fulfilled the law of Moses?

  9. Jacob from Israel Avatar
    Jacob from Israel

    Hello to all Honest people of earth,

    In Judaism, we don’t believe that all human must be Jewish, we rather see in the Torah that G-D want’s all people to practice the following 7 commandments;

    1. Do not worship idols
    2. Do not curse G-D
    3. Do not kill
    4. Do not commit adultery
    5. Do not steal
    6. Do not eat any livestock while it’s still alive.
    7. Keep up an honest court system.

    However, if someone feels that he wants to totally dedicate himself to the service of G-D, he may connect himself to the children of Abraham, Issac, and Jacob, and become a fully observant Jew.

    Please stay away of all the (so called “religious”) movements that drove away so many Jews from their tradition. In 30 years from now, there won’t be left any Reform Jews, since their younger generation cannot cling to the shaky spiritual remnants that were left by their founders.

    Here is a quote of the “American Heritage Dictionary of Cultural Literacy” on the description of Reform Judaism; “The most LIBERAL branch of JUDAISM. In Reform Judaism, all of the Jewish law, or TORAH, is subject to adaptation to fit modern circumstances.” – unfortunately, Reform Judaism cherishes “modern circumstances” more than G-D and Moses, having no limits to what can be changed from the Torah.

    There is no way Judaism can fit the cultural circumstances of any time, Judaism did not fit Pharaoh, nor was it adaptable to the Babylonians or the Greeks. Judaism is the law of G-D’s army and was not meant to be something similar to any culture of any nation.

    G-D will like you more as an Honest Gentile, than as a make believe “Reform Convert”.
    Remember; an honest citizen is better than a treacherous soldier.

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